What were we talking about?


Posted by Angie , Aug 17,2001,10:49   MetroBlab


Oh Yea! I remember, I was getting slammed for saying I was sick and tired of people not taking responsibility for their actions.

First, I don't see it as a black and white issue. It's knowing the difference between right and wrong. It's wrong to kill people, especially your own children. I don't think that's an issue. So, sir bob a lot or whatever, there's your comment and/or answer.

I hope Texas does pursue the death penalty in this case. This woman has made it very apparent that she is a harm to the community and personally, I wouldn't want her living in my neighborhood.

My point was that I am sick of people not being held accountable for what they do. If I choose to steal something, I'm a cleptomaniac and you shouldn't hold me responsible for my actions. If I molest children, I was molested as a child and therefor it's not my fault I abuse because I was abused. If I get drunk, get in a car, and kill people, I am an alcoholic with a disease and therefor I should not be held accountable for killing people because my disease made me do it. If I am married and constantly cheat on my spouse, I'm addicted to sex and a nymphomaniac so my spouse should understand and not hold me responsible for sleeping around. It's these incidents, and it happens a lot in one form or another, that I am sick of hearing about. I don't understand why people tolerate it and I don't understand why our justice systems tolerates it. There's very few cases of REAL mentally ill people committing severe crimes and I am not buying that lady's PPD claim. I can't and I won't. If that's black and white then so be it, at least I know where I stand.



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What were we talking about?

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What were we talking about? -- Angie
Posted by buds ® , Aug 18,2001,17:13   MetroBlab

Dont you think Vandalism is a good place to start.... someone vandalized my moms "mailbox" the other day and I wish that person would except resoponsibility for it

What were we talking about?

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What were we talking about? -- Angie
Posted by J. Lieber ® , Aug 17,2001,14:33   MetroBlab

Nobody slammed you. (Jesus Christ, the people on this board are touchy.)
I even agree with your basic point that people ought to accept responsibility for their actions. I just think sometimes they're too crazy to know the difference. I don't know about the lady in Texas. Maybe she planned the whole thing, sat around for months looking forward to D-Day (drowning day). Maybe she's totally crazy. I don't know enough to form a judgment at this point. (I'm pretty slow, I guess. I normally wait till all the proof is in, and rarely rely on TV News to help me slog through the complexities of the criminal mind.)

I just don't understand why you insist that she isn't being held accountable. (a) She's in jail; (b) she's going to get the death penalty, because Texas juries think exactly like you; so it follows that (c) you should feel very satisfied that there is in this evil, fiendish woman's future a fry-date. Of course, those liberal pussies who run the Texas prison system will no doubt give her the option of lethal injection. So I guess she'll get away with it after all.


Not touchy...just feely

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What were we talking about? -- J. Lieber
Posted by Angie , Aug 17,2001,14:56   MetroBlab

What I meant by my original post waaaaasssssssss that I thought it was sick and degrading that the Today SHow was soliciting viewers to send money for this woman's defense fund. I found that to be disgusting and that I (just me) think that anyone who contributes to it supports a world where accountability is unheard of.

And...as I was going to post before getting booted by a credit card purchase....was that our Justice is the engine that is making sure she is being held responsible, not society. Mark those words, it's one of the very few times I agree with the punishment of the justice system:-) tHE majority of society, or what the liberal media wants us to see, does NOT agree with the legal case in this situation and that is just sad. I agree with the death penalty is the most severe cases and this is one of those cases. This woman has no room in our society. She has deemed herself weak and has chosen to not be a part of our society. WE said that killing your own children is illegal and punishable by law and she chose to ignore that...5 TIMES... sHE can never be part of the progress of this society and we have no room for her here.

How can she possible ever be considered a viable and productive member of society? Maybe penalizing her with upmost extreme punishment will prvent similar incidents, maybe more attention will be paid to women's mental health issues and prevention/intervention, maybe just maybe it will let potential criminals know that if you decide to kill your children you better be ready to accept the consequences.


Not touchy...just feely

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Not touchy...just feely -- Angie
Posted by SnM , Aug 17,2001,15:42   MetroBlab

"...maybe just maybe it will let potential criminals know that if you decide to kill your children you better be ready to accept the consequences..."

I'm sorry, did I miss something? Is there an epidemic of unaccountable parents indulging in infanticide going on? Infanticide has been around as long as any society has, but is there some group of murderous parents out there in America today who aren't getting caught when they do it? If so, how large a group is it? Are they adding members daily? If there're parents out there regularly getting away with killing their kids, I want to know about them, so I can study their techniques.


Not touchy...just feely

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Not touchy...just feely -- Angie
Posted by the idiot , Aug 17,2001,15:18   MetroBlab

I thought it was sick and degrading that the Today SHow was soliciting viewers to send money for this woman's defense fund

Would you feel better if the media advocated for her to be dragged out in the streets and strung up from a tree?

Maybe penalizing her with upmost extreme punishment will prvent similar incidents, maybe more attention will be paid to women's mental health issues and prevention/intervention, maybe just maybe it will let potential criminals know that if you decide to kill your children you better be ready to accept the consequences.

First off, there is no proof whatsoever that the death penalty deters any crime (if anything, statistics suggest it increases crime). And as for this case increasing attention to women's health issues, I highly doubt it. That's exactly what I mean by accountability, and it's exactly what this country doesn't want to do. We'd rather kill people after the fact than try to deal with complex social problems. It's easier. Touchy feely things like "prevention" and "intervention" usually mean higher taxes, and we all know how Tennesseans feel about that.


Not touchy...just feely

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Not touchy...just feely -- Angie
Posted by J. Lieber ® , Aug 17,2001,15:12   MetroBlab

Hey, I'm just gonna agree to disagree on the death penalty.

I just can't figure out why you have a problem with the woman getting a good defense. Death penalty cases are expensive. They are round the clock. A good lawyer has no time for any other case in his or her practice if their client is facing the death penalty. If you want to execute somebody, then the least you can do is avail her of a decent lawyer.

Would you rather the State pay all of her defense expenses? I.e., taxpayers like you who want her dead? A good alternative to that unconscionable demand on the public is to solicit private donations.

I know, I know. You've already tried and convicted her. And it sure looks like she killed her kids, I'll hand you that. No doubt in my mind, any way. But if you think her mental status should have no bearing on whether she is put to death or not, then you are not "feely" at all. I would say in that circumstance that you are uniquely unfeeling.


Not touchy...just feely

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Not touchy...just feely -- J. Lieber
Posted by Angie , Aug 17,2001,15:35   MetroBlab

I just think she shoould have to pay for it herself. If people want to contribute to her defense then that's fine, I just found it offensive that the Today Show was soliciting donations. If you want to send her money, then so be it, Please send her some money.

I will openly admit it, in this particular case I AM unfeeling. I have no sympathy and I especially have NO empathy for this woman. I cannot feel anything but total disgust and utter opposition for this womans existence. That may sound strong and harsh, and albeit, I do not feel this way about every situation...because I don't, this is an exception. I just cannot and will not accept this woman's behaviour and her actions with or without a mental illness. I cannot, in good conscience, support this womans well being and existence at all. She is the epitomy of true evil in my eyes. A mother is one of the most sacred individuals in this society and it sickens me that she could ever consider herself a mother.




Not touchy...just feely

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Not touchy...just feely -- Angie
Posted by Gene Harrogate ® , Aug 17,2001,16:52   MetroBlab

I just cannot and will not accept this woman's behaviour and her actions with or without a mental illness.

Fortunately, a statement such as that would keep you off her jury as surely as one that precluded you from implementing the death penalty. You've admitted that you lack objectivism. Your hatred is obvious. That leaves little capacity for reason. Enjoy the dark. Keep those eyes closed real tight.

~Gene Harrogate



Not touchy...just feely

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Not touchy...just feely -- Gene Harrogate
Posted by Angie , Aug 18,2001,15:52   MetroBlab

Oh Gene! But you do crack me up. You are hilarious! You want to demean me and attack me, personally, because of my opinions concerning some woman who killed her own children.

I am glad I am not a member of that jury. I would NOT want to be on that jury. It would not be FAIR if I were on that jury. Also, I resent the statement you made saying I lacked objectivism. I can be objective and usually am; this case being an exception.

I HATE no one. HATE is a very strong word and I, personally, do not like it. I will say that I do hate what that woman did. I HATE HER ACTIONS. And, quite frankly, if living in the dark means that I stick to my morals and values, then so be it...turn out the lights. I'd rather be in the dark than be a person who condones murdering children.

I am very glad you brought up the Constitution in an earlier post. That this woman has a right to take advantage of the legal system and all it has to offer. Good for her, that's what it is there for. My question is this: Where's the money to hire legal aid for the 5 children she murdered in cold blood? Did they not have the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness? See, it's a good thing people like you are out there...Notice I didn't sink to your level by thanking God there's not more people like you as you did me...If it weren't for people like you no one would be on death row...they would have all been persecuted by now. This woman is guilty, she admitted it. Crazy or sane, her actions are punishable by death and I hope and pray she gets it. That doesn't make me a bad person, it makes me a just person.


Not touchy...just feely

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Not touchy...just feely -- Angie
Posted by Gene Harrogate ® , Aug 20,2001,09:43   MetroBlab

My question is this: Where's the money to hire legal aid for the 5 children she murdered in cold blood?

I'm glad to have this opportunity to help you understand how the system works. Since she is accused of committing a felony, it will be the state who represents the victims. And I assure you that the state has considerably more funds at its disposal for her prosecution than she will have for her defense.

Crazy or sane, her actions are punishable by death and I hope and pray she gets it.

That's not quite true though. As I've posted before, we have a long history of taking into account the mental state of individuals when assessing punishment for crimes. I'm sorry you don't like that, but it is how things are done in the United States.

~Gene Harrogate


Not touchy...just feely

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Not touchy...just feely -- Angie
Posted by J. Lieber ® , Aug 17,2001,15:43   MetroBlab

"She is the epitomy of true evil in my eyes. A mother is one of the most sacred individuals in this society and it sickens me that she could ever consider herself a mother."

She doesn't any more. hehehehehehehehe



Not touchy...just feely

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Not touchy...just feely -- J. Lieber
Posted by Angie , Aug 18,2001,15:55   MetroBlab

*hahahaha* Morbidly funny but true!:-)

What were we talking about?

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What were we talking about? -- Angie
Posted by Mike , Aug 17,2001,12:03   MetroBlab

I understand what you're saying. Some people see everything in either black or white. Others see only grey. Myself, I see black, white, and grey.
The trouble with my position is obvious: How can you tell where grey darkens into black or fades into white? And who is the arbiter of such things?
The other positions, however, are also�I believe moreso�flawed.
A black/white worldview allows for no understanding, no mercy, no recognition of the reality of mitigating circumstances. A wholly "grey" worldview (if I may steal from SnM's reference of some weeks ago to reducto ad absurdum) ultimately begs chaos, the obliteration of all standards and the denial of any common human perception of utility.
But the paradoxical little secret about all reasonably coherent philosophies, indeed many observations regarding the human condition in general, is that most of them are true. And most of them are false. A given philosophy can most always be reduced and proven fallacious. Yet how often would such reduction this seemingly give lie to some essential, emprical truth?
Being human is the process by which we determine where our perspectives intersect, and where our personal cultures/environments/etc. cause them to diverge. Some might call that grey, but I would disagree. It's some whole other color entirely, one that only our humanity allows us to see.


EXACTLY!

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What were we talking about? -- Mike
Posted by Angie , Aug 17,2001,13:38   MetroBlab

You are exactly right! I do get offended when I am accused of having a black or white perspective because I don't. Some things are cut and dry while others have to regarded with some consideration and exception. My point was that no matter how one might think I (me, just me, not speaking for anyone else, just myself!:-)) think it is high time people became more aware of their actions and be made to take responsibility for their actions and themselves. I think society needs to start holding people accountable for what they choose to do and what they choose not to do. In a way, you can almost break it down by person. What are you capable of living with? When your'e life is over are you going to worry about being judged? Did you do the right thing? That's really all. However, I hate the fact that they did advertise on the Today show for viewers to send money to that womans defense fund. I think it's just sick.

EXACTLY!

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EXACTLY! -- Angie
Posted by the idiot , Aug 17,2001,14:23   MetroBlab

Well, I kind think that woman is being held responsbile. She's facing murder charges and a death penalty. How is society not holding her responsible?

I agree that everyone is repsonsible for their own actions, but I also think that we're all responsible for everyone else, and if we refuse that responsibility (as we always do) we pay for it by the world that we live in.

I always think of that passage from Dickens' Christmas Carol:
`Oh, Man. look here. Look, look, down here.' exclaimed the Ghost. They were a boy and a girl. Yellow, meagre, ragged, scowling, wolfish; but prostrate, too, in their humility. Where graceful youth should have filled their features out, and touched them with its freshest tints, a stale and shrivelled hand, like that of age, had pinched, and twisted them, and pulled them into shreds. Where angels might have sat enthroned, devils lurked, and glared out menacing. No change, no degradation, no perversion of humanity, in any grade, through all the mysteries of wonderful creation, has monsters half so horrible and dread.
Scrooge started back, appalled. Having them shown to him in this way, he tried to say they were fine children, but the words choked themselves, rather than be parties to a lie of such enormous magnitude.
`Spirit. are they yours.' Scrooge could say no more.
`They are Man's,' said the Spirit, looking down upon them. `And they cling to me, appealing from their fathers. This boy is Ignorance. This girl is Want. Beware them both, and all of their degree, but most of all beware this boy, for on his brow I see that written which is Doom, unless the writing be erased. Deny it.' cried the Spirit, stretching out its hand towards the city.

Throughout history, people (and more importantly) governments and corporations have rarely been held accountable for their actions. Usually they are rewarded with power and financial gain: slaughtering indigenous people, enslaving Africans, bombing civilians, financing dictators, explointing land and people for profit, polluting. The crimes of history are so easily forgotten.

I can understand being disgusted that a woman would drown her five children, but I can't for the life of me see what putting her to death will accomplish, or how that will ultimately be good for society.


several points for ya here...

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EXACTLY! -- the idiot
Posted by Julias Jaded Jester ® , Aug 17,2001,19:07   MetroBlab

She killed her FIVE children.

According to Steven Fox, three or more in a single incident makes the person a MASS MURDERER.

That's what Mrs. Andrea Yates actually is, man.

She's a mass murderer.

The only defense to a cut and dry case like this one is 'under age' or insanity. She is 35 and she is CLEARLY not insane. Does she have a problem with her condition? YES.

But did that condition make her insane? I doubt it.

And after killing five people, Andrea Yates can be and IS considered extremely dangerous to society, and fully culpable for her acts. Keep in mind that somewhere out there might be another woman who is considering the exact same crime, and if so, then her execution MIGHT provide a deterrent.

But even if it does not, all Texas has done is executed a heinous killer. Big deal. Good riddance.

People made a huge stink of Susan Smith's crime. This woman killed more than TWICE as many kids as Susan Smith did. Andrea Yates made Susan Smith look like a schoolgirl.

Andrea killed FIVE CHILDREN. It doesn't get much worse than that.

The good news IS that you will see VERY FEW Andrea Yates in your lifetimes. Females don't commit much murder in ANY society.

One poster made a good point in that we have not yet seen the trial, so we don't really KNOW what happened. But my prediction is that she will be shown as very much SANE by her actions leading up to.. and after.. the crime, and she will be sentenced to death. She chose the WORST state to do that crime and the WORST COUNTY in that state to do that crime.

My guess is that Andrea Yates will eventually die by lethal injection, probably within ten years.

And if her execution deterrs even ONE woman out there, then it was worth doing for society. The real paradigm is 'how can we save the most lives?' Clearly, executing heinous killers saves lives. They kill other inmates, and guards, and visitors, and they also ESCAPE and kill even MORE innocent people.

We have little to lose by executing the worst killers among us.


EXACTLY!

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EXACTLY! -- the idiot
Posted by J. Lieber ® , Aug 17,2001,14:50   MetroBlab

Dear Idiot,

You are wasting your time. You cannot teach people to think. Certain people only react. They are governed by their emotions, not by their intellect.

This is why, when challenged, they respond with opprobrious insults and invective. "Gene is an ass..." etc. The most telling characteristic of the conservatives who post on this board is their anger. They are always spewing bile about how pissed off and outraged they are. And if you say the slightest thing to challenge them, they assume they're being attacked and lob their whole arsenal of dirty names at you.

I have conservative friends who can actually engage in rational dialogue without pitching a hissy fit. So they're out there. They're just not here.

Cheers,

Julie


...said the Pot to the Kettle.

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EXACTLY! -- J. Lieber
Posted by Angie , Aug 17,2001,15:11   MetroBlab

Wow! What a generalized observation Jill!

Hmm...I could REACT to the statements or allegations you made but then I'd be overgeneralizing and that's more of your forte. I'm a more Proactive, rather than Reactive, woman.

I never called anyone a name. I welcome arguement, I don't get "pissy." I can actually engage in rational dialogue without pitching a hissy fit. I don't have to resort to name calling and be littleing and overgeneralizing...which could be defined as being prejudice by the liberals....uh-oh!Just kidding.... It wouldn't be any fun if we all agree'd, now would it? How boring this place would be?! But what's even worse is when people cannot deal with opposition to their beliefs and resort to classifying everyone based on their own narrow view.

Now that I have said all of that? Can't we all just get along and agree to disagree? *hahahaha*


...said the Pot to the Kettle.

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...said the Pot to the Kettle. -- Angie
Posted by J. Lieber ® , Aug 17,2001,15:13   MetroBlab

I wasn't talking about you in particular. Chill out.

...said the Pot to the Kettle.

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...said the Pot to the Kettle. -- J. Lieber
Posted by Angie , Aug 17,2001,15:26   MetroBlab

It IS kind of hot in here....wonder what the thermostat is set at....

EXACTLY!

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EXACTLY! -- J. Lieber
Posted by the idiot , Aug 17,2001,14:55   MetroBlab

Oh, I know all that. Sometimes I'd rather argue than work, which I'm finding very difficult at the moment.

Have a good weekend.


What were we talking about?

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What were we talking about? -- Angie
Posted by Gene Harrogate ® , Aug 17,2001,11:40   MetroBlab

There's very few cases of REAL mentally ill people committing severe crimes and I am not buying that lady's PPD claim.

You generously acknowledge that there are "real" mentally ill people. That would seem to suggest that you think there are instances where criminal acts are not a result of an evil person, but of a sick mind.

As for your assessment of this case, I would like to know how you arrived at your diagnosis. To me, drowning five of your own childred is indicative of mental illness, not malice. Recall that the father of these children, someone whom I suspect feels this loss a good deal more than you and who likely is in a better position to assess the woman's mental state, does not feel that the act was one of murder, but a result of mental illness. Please explain what information you have that would indicate otherwise.

~Gene Harrogate



What were we talking about?

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What were we talking about? -- Gene Harrogate
Posted by Angie , Aug 17,2001,13:51   MetroBlab

Family members of the woman and her husband were interviewed on 20/20 or 48 hours or a similar show...I don't recall the particular date. Pleae be assured that as soon as I can I will research it and get that info to you.

On this particular interview the husband remarked that the woman had acted "strangely" after the birth of their SECOND child and she didn't seem to get "completely better." The woman had made comments to family members and friends way before the incident that she wasn't feeling like "herself" and she was feeling moments where she waas "out of control." SO, I conclude that she knew she had a problem before the inicident took place. She knew she needed help and she chose to do nothing about it. You could say "well, she clearly made cries for help to her family, friends, and to her own husband. Why didn't they do anything to help her?" My comment to that would be in a perfect world they would have helped her. She made cries for help, she is the only person she can count on. So when she made no attempt to seek outside help, she, in essence, decided that placing her own children in severe danger was less important than what others perceived of her. She made that decision knowing that there were risks, she put her children in danger and she should be held responsible for that decision.

As for her husband knowing her mental state better than me...I sure the hell hope so but sometimes it's easier for people in his position to take the same attitude you are. It's easier for him to accept she is crazy than to believe the woman he chose to marry could ever be sanely capable of committing such a haneous and unthinkable act. I bet Susan Smith's husband could offer him a little advice.


What were we talking about?

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What were we talking about? -- Angie
Posted by Gene Harrogate ® , Aug 17,2001,15:15   MetroBlab

...the husband remarked that the woman had acted "strangely"

Interesting that you don't blame him as well. Does this make him an accessory? What about the other family members?

So when she made no attempt to seek outside help, she, in essence, decided that placing her own children in severe danger was less important than what others perceived of her.

Again, I take it you've never been around someone who's completely lost their shit. You assume that she had the mental faculties to reason -- something not supported by her actions. Is all human action decided? Particulary those decisions that result in a lack of action rather than an action? To me, there's a fair amount of evidence to suggest that she was mentally ill, including the statements you reference. I have yet to hear anyone (aside from yourself) suggest that she was capable of reasonable thought at the time.

And I haven't seen anything presented by anybody to suggest that this was a crime of malice. Hell, even by your reasoning it's a crime of negligence. Should someone who's parked car rolls down a hill and kills children at a bus stop be treated the same as someone who intentionally runs down school children? Is negligence the same?

It's easier for him to accept she is crazy than to believe the woman he chose to marry could ever be sanely capable of committing such a haneous and unthinkable act.

And yet it's easier for you, someone who has never met her, to assess her mental state, her ability to reason? What he accepts is based on his personal experience with her for many years. What you have selected to believe is based on unfounded prejudice.

I bet Susan Smith's husband could offer him a little advice.

I really don't think Susan Smith is in the same ballpark with this case. There are a significant number of factors that are different (not the least of which that she lied to cover up the event). Perhaps the only coincidence is that they both killed their children by drowning. It would seem that for you, this is reason enough to paint them with the same brush.

But fortunately, our justice system is not founded on such muddy thinking. Our courts weigh each case seperately, and the 8th Amendment to our Constitution prescribes compassion when determining punishment. They take into account motive, and state of mind. It's unfortunate that you don't see the wisdom of this.

Finally, let me say that it is very shortsighted to think that all bad events involving humans can be traced to an individual's faults, or that all fault is compelled by intentional evil. As my friend The Idiot admonished in his post to JJJ, "Making sweeping generalizations makes the world easier to navigate, but it doesn't really explain anything, or come closer to finding answers."

So you go ahead and hate the sinner instead of the sin. It will make your world and the people in it so much easier to judge. And isn't judging people really what it's all about for you? Then you don't have to think very hard at all. There are simply good people and bad people. Black and white. Sure, it's lazy thinking. But it's easy.

~Gene Harrogate

--modified at Fri, Aug 17, 2001, 15:15:49


What were we talking about?

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What were we talking about? -- Gene Harrogate
Posted by WTG , Aug 19,2001,00:01   MetroBlab

>>So when she made no attempt to seek outside help, she, in essence, decided that placing her own children in severe danger was less important than what others perceived of her.

I thought she had been under treatment previously?

I really feel for those kids. Especially the eldest, Noah, he KNEW what was happening to him.

It's a pity that narrowminded halfwits out there scream 'toast her!' when they don't see the real problem.

Instead of bigger prisons, more executions, & more 'legal costs', put the money into finding cures for mental illness or at the very least some sort of monitoring of 'at risk' children so wisely left in the care of 'god-fearing but completely whacked parents'.

There are all kinds of these kids around here.
Say, those babies in Blount county comes to mind. (By babies, I mean both the mother & the child she left for dead.)

It boils down to a nasty combination of ignorance, mental illness, & the 'don't talk about it' attitude toward mental illness.


What were we talking about?

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What were we talking about? -- Gene Harrogate
Posted by X. Fontaine ® , Aug 17,2001,12:47   MetroBlab

I don't have time for a full rebuttal, but Gene is simply an ass. An apologist for the walking talking human debris of society. He fits in well with those he seeks to protect.

well you are EXACTLY RIGHT, X. Fontaine...

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What were we talking about? -- X. Fontaine
Posted by Julias Jaded Jester ® , Aug 17,2001,19:42   MetroBlab

Gene Harrogate feels that in order to BE COOL,

one must mock effectively those who he considers not as cool as himself....

hence his attacks on me.

He HAS NO real abilility to debate a social issue, and he counts on his acidic wit to destroy a poster.

He probably thinks that if he can insult someone enough, then they'll leave and he can claim triumph. But when faced with a serious adversary, such as I, all he can do is look increasingly frustrated...

mark my words right now...I will ACE that clown with compelling arguments and REAL DATA...


What were we talking about?

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What were we talking about? -- X. Fontaine
Posted by Gene Harrogate ® , Aug 17,2001,13:36   MetroBlab

He fits in well with those he seeks to protect.

Coming from the likes of you, that's a compliment.

~Gene Harrogate